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5 More Ways to Prepare for Divorce

Benjamin Franklin said that failing to prepare is preparing to fail. Here are five more strategic steps to take if you are contemplating divorce. Get Up To Speed On The Family Finances It’s often the case that one spouse takes the lead in dealing with the family finances. If that person is you, you’re in good shape. But if that person is not you, you need to get up to speed now. Understanding … [Read more...]

Five Best Ways to Prepare for Divorce

If you are contemplating divorce, there is no substitute for preparation. Here are a few practical suggestions to get you started. Be Certain You're Ready Unraveling a marriage can be traumatic for you, your spouse, and, most important, your children. So before you initiate the launch sequence, make sure you do everything you can to make it work. Have you suggested couples therapy? Have you … [Read more...]

How to Raise More Grateful Children

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If divorce is in your future, here are five more reasons why you should hire an experienced family law attorney and not represent yourself. You Will Save Money in the Long Run Because you don’t know the law, courtroom procedure, and the judge, hiring a family lawyer up front will save you money in the long run. An experienced divorce lawyer will, for example, (i) make sure you don’t pay more … [Read more...]


Contrary to popular belief, February is not the month for love. If divorce is on the horizon, here are five reasons why you should not represent yourself. You Don't Know the Law Texas family law is very complex. It draws on principles from many areas of the law—including the Texas Family Code, real estate law, contract law, retirement benefits law, and tax law to name a few. Unless you went to … [Read more...]


New Year’s resolutions are important—especially in families touched by divorce. Here are a few more to consider. Resolve to make new friends The friends you had before your divorce may have disappeared after it. Or chosen sides (and not yours). Don’t waste your energy trying to win them back—they aren’t worth it. Now’s the time to make new friends. Throw a block party, invite a neighbor for … [Read more...]


The beginning of a new year is a great time to focus on life changes, prepare to take on the future with confidence, and ensure that you and your children are happy and well-adjusted. Here are a few resolutions to consider. Resolve to update your will, trusts, and insurance policies Tear up your old will and make a new one. Name a new executor. Update the beneficiaries on your life insurance … [Read more...]

Five Practical Tips for Surviving Divorce and the Holidays

The holiday season can intensify feelings of sadness and loss—especially for people going through a divorce. The holidays underscore how much their lives have changed. Here are five practical tips for surviving divorce and the holidays. Plan early. Don’t wait. Work out your holiday parenting schedule in advance. Recognize that your children have a right to spend time with both parents during … [Read more...]

Five More Practical Tips for Surviving Divorce and the Holidays

Coping with separation and divorce is magnified by the holiday season. Divorced people often approach this time of year with panic, sadness, and dread. Although there is no magic cure for the holiday blues, here are five more practical tips for surviving divorce and the holidays. Don’t spend the holidays alone. During the holidays, it can be tempting to go into withdrawal—especially if your … [Read more...]


  In the final post in the series, here are six more mistakes macho guys typically make in divorce and custody cases that should be avoided at all cost. Don’t Hide Money Fight the temptation. Don’t hide money onshore or offshore. If you do, you will commit fraud. If your spouse discovers the fraud, she will have the right to re-open the property division. And once you are branded a … [Read more...]